Here is my own article on Divorce http://www.peaceinislam.com/shane2k/179/

Were you refering to my Article or the Comment ?

If Article, then my articles are in Bangla but some portions are English for reasons when I thought that if I translate might lose the actual essence of the sentence or paragraph.

If comment, then I am guilty as charged and this is more for the reason that for the purpose of comment it will take signaficant time for me to pass my view if I am to write in Bangla rather than English.

But I promise that Inshallah my effort to post my artciles are always in Bangla.

Question: Dear scholar, As-Salamu `alaykum. I am very stressed now, please help me and guide me. I will tell you my problem shortly. My husband gave me divorce 8 months before; he gave me 3 divorces at a time. When he gave me divorce, he was arguing about some family problem and he gave me 3 talaqs with these words: first he gave me 3 divorces with (saying talaq) then he said to me listen carefully then he again gave me 3 divorces then he said listen again because after that don’t say to me that you didn’t listen then he again gave me 3 divorces (this was talaqun bain [irrevocable divorce]). When he gave me divorce, I wasn’t mensturating, we have 2 young kids, my elder son is 2 years old and my daughter is 1 year old, and we had a good husband wife relation. Now my ex-husband really regrets and wants to do halala. My question is, if for halala purpose somebody agrees to marry me, just to help me and my ex-husband (to make halala between me and my ex-husband) somebody agrees to marry me, without taking any money or anything, and after making husband wife relation, then he divorce me then can I marry to my first husband? Is it permissible? Can we do it? Please reply me! I will wait for your fatwa reply desperately, thank you!

Answer: Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

সূত্র এখান থেকে পাওয়া

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

If all of these pronouncements of divorce did take place in one sitting, and not on three separate occasions, then you are only divorced once, in this case your husband is allowed to take you back. He can simply say in front of two witnesses, I take back my wife so and so or write it down and get it witnessed to be more precise.

If, on the other hand, he divorced you on three separate occasions, then your husband cannot take you back.

But that is not what I understand from your question; your question implies that all of the pronouncements of divorce happened in one session or in the same sitting. So there is no need for you to marry someone else and then get a divorce from the person to marry your husband.

The issue of someone marrying you simply for sake of divorce is not permissible in Islam. That is nothing but corruption.

Your husband needs to learn to control his anger; he must never play with the words of talaq again. That is making a mockery of the laws of Allah, which is indeed a most heinous sin. If you have marital issues you need to go for counselling to learn how to sort them out.

Allah Almighty knows best.

এই ফতোয়া দিয়েছেন- ফিকাহ বিদ আহমেদ কুট্টি। উনার সম্পর্কে জানতে হলে এই লিংকে যান

আল্লাহ আমাদেরকে সত্য বুঝতে সাহায্য করুন। আমিন।

I agree with you. What I have read from the commentary of Omar (R) on this very topic was that when he saw that people were misusing the steps of 3 divorce and giving 3 divorce at once he regretfully said that if people knowingly wants to bring suffering on themselves then let it be. Meaning, if someone give 3 divorce at once then let it counted as 3 instead of 1.

BUT, in reference to Prophetic tradition steps must be followed and giving 3 at once is a SIN, yes SIN, based on Prophets hadith.

My detail on this topic is in the link below
http://www.peaceinislam.com/shane2k/%E0%A6%8F%E0%A6%95-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%B2%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%95-%E0%A6%A6%E0%A7%81%E0%A6%87-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%B2%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%95-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%A8-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%B2/

Please refer to my post on Divorce shown below
http://www.peaceinislam.com/shane2k/%E0%A6%8F%E0%A6%95-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%B2%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%95-%E0%A6%A6%E0%A7%81%E0%A6%87-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%B2%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%95-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BF%E0%A6%A8-%E0%A6%A4%E0%A6%BE%E0%A6%B2/

সুতরাং তালাক যে ভালো না এটা স্পষ্ট , কিন্তু প্রশ্ন “এক বসাতে তিন তালাক দিলে তালাক বৈধ হবে কিনা ? “

তাহলে আপনার আর তার কথা তো একই , বিরোধটা কোথায় ?

আর পোষ্টে আমি বলেছি যে প্রয়োজনে এক সাথে তিন তালাক দেওয়া যাবে। তার মানে নয় যে ইচ্ছা করবেন আর বিনা কারনে তিন তালাক দিতে ইসলাম অনুমতি দিয়েছে। ধন্যবাদ।

এবিষয়ে উনি কিছুই বলেন নাই , সুতরাং প্রসংগটা অবান্তর ।